Trials
TRIAL~ a test of faith, patience, or stamina through subjection to suffering or temptation.
We all have trials, we all make sacrifices for those we love, those most important to us. Personally, I have been going through some major trials the past 6 months. We prayerfully made the decision last fall for Dustin to take a new job in Nevada. Ever since then our home in Texas has been on the market, with no takers still. Gererously my parents have let me stay in their home in southern Utah during that time; and during that time, Dustin has been living out of a suitcase down in Vegas going from my relative's to his for a place to sleep at night. He comes up to see the kids and I about every other weekend, depending on his call schedule. Its not been the most ideal of situations, but we've been doing it, making the sacrifice and making it work as best we can.
Well, recently we decided to take a HUGE leap of faith and move down there so we can all be together as a family. Things have fallen into place and seem to be working out so that we can really do this. I applied for a job in a local ER close to the house we found to rent and got the job. This blessing will allow us to be together, which is the most important thing afer after.
We still have not sold our house, but continue to cross our fingers that we're not too far off from a buyer. It hasn't all been entirely bad since we've been here either. We've had our share of beautiful days as well. I constantly have small little thoughts or sayings going through my mind; 'patience is a virtue', 'by small & simple things, great things come to pass', 'put your shoulder to the wheel, push along', 'endure to the end', 'faith without works is dead', 'never, ever give up'. Some days are better than others, and some are just plain bad, but I know I'm not alone in my trials. Everyone is given trials, and everyone's are different. I hope if you're reading this you don't feel I am being too candid with my feelings or putting them out there for sympathy because that is not why I'm writing this down. My sympathy boat sailed LONG ago (probably sometime in the 90's)! My hope is for someone reading this, and more for me writing this to find that extra bit of strength left somewhere inside of you and couragously take that leap of faith to better your life. May we all find it in us to do that!!!
p.s. I put a little pic of our new place on here in hopes that we'll have some visitors soon. We officially move in a couple weeks, so if you're ever in Vegas... give us a call!!!
14 comments:
Stacie - you are AWESOME! You have been through a lot being away from Dustin, takikng care of the kiddos, and being prego. I am so proud of you and so excited that you found a REALLY cute home in Vegas to rent. There is always a trial before good things happen. I wish you guys the best of luck - and if I hear of anyone moving to the Lone Star state - I will send them your way!!
Tey
I love that house. I am so glad things are starting to fall into place. I still wish you were here, but I am so glad things are moving forward for you.
I really appreciated this post. (As I'm sure you know...) I needed the reminder! You're such a great friend. And I'll keep praying for you guys too!
Thanks for your thoughts! It's just what I needed today!!! Stace-you are such a strong person! I LOVE your new home and I can't wait to come and visit! As for your other house-it will sell, I can feel it! As for having a GIRL-congratulations!!!! I am SO excited to meet her! Love you and hope to see you more because we are coming back West-hooray!
Thanks for your thoughts! It's just what I needed today!!! Stace-you are such a strong person! I LOVE your new home and I can't wait to come and visit! As for your other house-it will sell, I can feel it! As for having a GIRL-congratulations!!!! I am SO excited to meet her! Love you and hope to see you more because we are coming back West-hooray!
Stacie
I just wanted to say thank you for your thoughts. you never know who they might help, and you have helped me tonight. I am right there with you in the trials department, this time of our lives has definately been our hardest! We live and learn, right? I love you and I am so grateful to have such a great friend like you, keep your head up. I am so happy that you have a place in vegas, we are for sure crashing there soon! call me anytime, I still need your number girl.
BTW I finally updated our blog!
Stacie-
you are too great! thanks for putting what we all go through at times into such peaceful prose!
you can bet your bottom dollar that i will be down to vegas in no time! can't wait to see you!
love,
me
Stacie,
This is Becky Gerrard (Brockman) I found your blog through Abby's. You have the cuttest family. I loved your last entry. I am about to enter into the trial that I least dread. My husband is leaving for Egypt next week. This is the 3rd year that we have done this. It is SO hard to be apart and be a single mom. I have a small glipse of an idea what you are going through. My husband missed the birth of my liitle boy. It was so hard. I am so glad that you and Dustin are back as a family. I hope that you don't mind that I checked out your blog. Your kids a re so dang cute. Please check our blog out if you want.
Becky
Stacie,
Thanks for your comments. It puts things in perspective for me. Sometimes our trials don't even measure up to trials others are going through. I guess Heavenly Father knows what we need and won't give us more than we can handle. I certainately wouldn't want to live apart from my husband and be a single mom for very long! I'm glad you'll be working a little to keep those skills up! I think that's important--coming from a fellow RN! Love ya
very inspiring and just what i needed...thanks!!! I really hope your home sells soon so that you have that huge burden lifted! and congratulations on a girl!! yay!!
Hey Girl,
Believe you me your post was a huge inspiration to me. I need to remember those simple things when the trials hit our life or continue to linger in our life. What I am grateful for is that I have a friend like you that teaches me, is completely honest and open about your life and you are such a huge support to me even though we are miles away from each other.
I love ya girl! I love your new house. I think you are making a wonderful leaf of faith and I have hope that it will pay off for you.
Call you soon.
Heather :)
Stacie, This is Jill Taylor Steele and I linked over from Amy's blog, but what a cute little family you guys have. I wish you luck with your new adventure and selling your house in TX! I'm glad to see you're doing so well, despite some trials!
hang in there, girl! We miss you and will keep the house sale in our prayers. Love to all, Melissa
Stacie
I have been a lazy blogger but I clicked on your site today and thought your post was so sweet. You have always been a great example to me. Talking me through nursing school, talking to me about work... You are a great mom and great wife! I hope the house sells soon!
-Ash
Good to see you're all down there in the desert as a fam. I'm hoping to come down there this summer so hopefully I'll see you then! Hang in there.
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